So you’ve been thinking about it, and you’ve decided that you want to have a psychic reading. Maybe you’ve thought about it for a long time and have had to overcome some negative thoughts about it, or people you know have been critical about it. It can be a little intimidating at first because you don’t know what to expect. But it can also be life changing (in a good way), and lead you down a path to personal transformation and spiritual enlightenment if you make some good choices. Be open to the possibilities and know that you are going on a new and exciting adventure.
Word of Mouth
In some ways, finding a good psychic is like anything else you might go hunting for as a consumer. Inevitably it will involve an exchange of money since most psychics are professionals who earn their living from it to one degree or another. As with finding any kind of professional, the best way to find one is through word of mouth. If someone you know has had a good experience with someone, your chances are much greater that you will, too. On the other hand, if you don’t know anyone who can give you a referral, this is a great opportunity to start using your own intuitive skills. The most important thing about getting a good reading is that you resonate with person who reads you.
Do Your Homework
If you don’t have a good referral, start doing research on the internet about different kinds of psychics and the kinds of services they offer. The internet has opened up a whole new world of possibilities for finding a good psychic. As you are searching, pay attention to what your gut is telling you about them. Learn about the different kinds of ways they work – and, just like you would note the reviews of someone you’re doing business with on ebay – check out their client reviews as well.
Remote Reading or Face to Face?
In the old days before the internet, your only possibilities for a reading were in person or over the phone. Phone readings are limited for obvious reasons – part of what makes a reading good is the personal connection you make with a psychic. Without the eye contact and feel you get from being face to face with someone you may lack a sense of connection, which will detract from a really great experience. However, with the ability to skype much of that personal connection is restored, so find out if someone you feel drawn to is willing to do a skype reading.
Good vs. Bad Readings
There have always been, and always will be charlatans who pass themselves off as legitimate psychics. They prey on people’s weaknesses, so you need to be clear about what you’re seeking out a psychic for. Understand the limitations: not even the best psychics can predict the future with 100% certainty. Don’t go in with the expectation that you are going to get a foolproof snapshot of the future. Do go in with the attitude that you are there to learn something, and that there will be some spiritual benefit for you as a result. Once you are clear about your own intentions, you can watch out for signs of fraud: responses that sound scripted; attempts to make you believe that you can’t change the future; or any type of appeal designed to keep you coming back and paying money for the visits. A good reading will give you perspective and hope, and help you make better choices in your life. And if you’re really lucky, you’ll find someone who is truly gifted and leave you with a sense of awe and inspiration!